Words for a Strangely Warmed Heart

First United Methodist Church - Elkin, NC


Why an Ancient Warrior and a British Football Coach Are the Leaders We Need

I know what you're thinking: an American football coach in England and an ancient Israelite leader? Really? But hear me out. After binge-watching Ted Lasso for the 100th time and wrestling with Joshua's story again, I'm convinced these two unlikely leaders have more to teach us about leadership than most business books on the shelf.

Picture this: Joshua's standing at the edge of the Promised Land, knowing he's got to fill Moses' sandals. No pressure, right? Meanwhile, Ted Lasso walks into a locker room where everyone expects him to fail spectacularly. Both men are in way over their heads, facing skeptical audiences and uncertain futures.

But here's what I love about both stories: God doesn't tell Joshua to "be strong and courageous" because he's already got it all figured out. And Ted doesn't win over Richmond FC because he knows the offside rule. They succeed because they're willing to be vulnerable, to lift others up, and to lead from the heart rather than the ego.

Joshua listens. He takes advice from Rahab, a prostitute who becomes a crucial ally. He delegates to tribal leaders instead of micromanaging every detail. Ted does the same thing: he asks questions, he learns people's names, he makes space for others to shine. When you watch him with Roy Kent or Rebecca, you see someone who's genuinely curious about the people around him.

The truth is, the loudest person in the room is rarely the best leader. The most effective leaders are the ones who show up consistently, who choose grace over grudges, and who believe in people before those people believe in themselves.

Now, I'm not saying Elkin First United Methodist needs to start a British football team (though that could be fun). But imagine what would happen if we led more like Joshua and Ted. What if we approached ministry with that same mix of humility and hope? What if we built teams where people felt seen, valued, and empowered to use their gifts?

Our church desperately needs leaders who are willing to step into uncertainty with courage, who choose encouragement over cynicism, and who understand that God's kingdom advances through ordinary people doing extraordinary things in love.

Here's my challenge for you: During the month of August, identify one area where God is calling you to step up and lead, whether that's starting a new ministry, mentoring someone younger, or simply being more intentional about building community. Don't wait until you feel ready. Joshua wasn't ready. Ted wasn't ready. But they were willing, and that made all the difference. What's your next step?

Grace and Peace,

 Rev. Kaury Edwards